10 Ways to Teach Your Child to Fail Successfully

Let’s be honest. How many of you see the “amazing performance” of your child as a sign of “good parenting”? I suspect most of us do. Unfortunately, that is where the danger lies, because the “F” word is seen as “bad parenting”. F as in FAILURE. When our children go to school without finished homework or they have so many mistakes in their English assignment. When they give in a project which is falling apart, get a D for their spelling test or simply have accidents like falling of their bikes. We are seen as “bad parents”, so we do […]

Pump Your Perseverance Muscle – Bartek’s Way

5 times a week, 20 times a month, 240 times a year, 4800 times in 20 years! That is the number of times my husband has been to the gym since he was 16 years old. He is now 36 and a Personal Trainer. Altogether that is about… 7200 HOURS! 432,000 MINUNTES! There have been no short cuts (I mean no hormone growth or steroids). It is all hard work, determination and PERSERVERANCE! I admired his perseverance so much that I actually sat him down and interviewed him to find out his secret. This is what he said… (He spoke […]

I AM

I AM not my emotions, They come and go with the wind. I AM not my skin tone, It’s just another shade. I AM not my body, It’s just the beautiful boat I ride in. I AM not my mistakes, They have past and gone. I AM the infinite blaze that burns inside. I AM divine light that shines from within. I AM the knowing. I AM the truth of it all. I AM consciousness. I AM LIGHT….just like you.

Find Happiness in The Now – 5 Undisputed Ways

HAPPY or UNHAPPY? Like the pressure in our blood, we fluctuate between the two. How do we stay sane and avoid falling into a pool of negative emotions? My idea of happiness has transformed over the past 10 years along with each cell in my body. I remember back in college, becoming a lawyer, a doctor, working for international companies and business in general were the passports to well-paid jobs and happiness of course. The truth about real happiness was learnt the hard way. When I turned 30, I looked back at my working life. I wasn’t pleased. The pursuit […]

3 Super Powers You Need to Be Successful

You may be a student, a professional or an entrepreneur. No matter who you are, we have all encountered severe adversities sometime in our lives. The difference  between those that push through and those that give up is how they deal with their struggle. How resilient they are. Behind the dark stormy clouds, shines the Sun…and that is a fact. RESILIENCE is the ability to fall and bounce back up stronger and wiser. That truly is a superpower worth developing. Sooner or later, success is certain. Some of the world’s most successful figures built their empire on resilience. Here are […]

Ditch Your Limiting Beliefs in 3 stages

“We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs.” Lousie Hay Have you ever wondered why you keep getting results you don’t want? You guessed right…It is because your limiting beliefs repeatedly shape your experiences, prevent you from grabbing opportunities and discourage you from even trying. Here are some limiting beliefs we have permitted to control our lives… I am not good enough / I don’t have money / I never have enough time /  I am too old for that / People can’t be trusted / Money […]

Where Answers Really Come From – The Secret

Why did he leave me? – you feel UNHAPPY How do I get out of this rut? – you feel STUCK Why aren’t I getting those sales? – you feel FRUSTRATED Why haven’t I got friends? – you feel LONELY Why do I keep failing? – you feel CONFUSED We tend to search for answers ONLY when encountering problems – Why? It is quite obvious. It is only then you feel the need to discover who you really are, what you really want in life and hopefully what your mission is. On the 20th page of a book I once […]

Love Yourself First – The Ultimate Way

Have you ever been betrayed by a loved one? Cheated on by your partner? How did you feel? Traumatized? Heartbroken? Angry? Revengeful? I can say it is one of most painful experiences. Now, let me reverse the question… Have you ever betrayed YOURSELF? This means… hiding the truth about yourself to another , not living according to your values but by the values of others, giving up your integrity to accommodate another, associating with people of bad influence and allowing them into your life, not giving yourself enough time and attention to grow, always putting yourself last, belittling yourself. I […]

Transform Goals into Results- These 5 ways

  DREAMS! GOALS! VISIONS! Do you feel the need to change a specific area of your life or even the world? Awareness of change is a huge stepping-stone. The tricky part is transforming that awareness into actions to get the ball rolling. DREAMS without actions are simply DAYDREAMS. Below are 5 guidelines on how to bring goals to life.   1. WHY? WHY? WHY? This may be the number 1 question to ask yourself. -“Why do you want to run the  Marathon?” -“Because I want to prove to myself I can do it.” –“Why do you want to prove you […]